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We only go around once. There's really no time to be afraid. So stop. Try something you’ve never tried. Teach it. Do it. Risk it. -Jon Blais

What does that mean to you? Yes it’s a nice saying and you like it. But maybe tomorrow you will get around to doing something about your life.

You are young, you have time and after all you are so busy with your JOB and your family and all you have to do. You really don’t have time to be making changes right now. You want to but you just don’t have time. Really, you don’t have time so it will just have to wait. Wait until you wake up one day and you find your spouse has cancer and may die. Or one of your children get’s really sick and you have to be at the hospital day and night with that child. Or better yet you find out you have cancer and in order to live you are going to have to have surgery and treatments for the next 6 months or 2 years or until you die.

So tell me When will be the time for your to STOP and quit being afraid of change, afraid to try something new? We found ourselves in that position just a year ago. We had worked and worked and worked till retirement. We had wanted to do other things. We had wanted more fulfillment in our lives. We had wanted to travel. BUT we were too busy, we were afraid, we would do it later, we were afraid, we were safe doing what we were doing. So August 2009 we decided to quit being afraid, take a chance and do something we had never done.

We sold our house and gave away or sold most of our belongings. We bought a motor home and were heading out on the road to see the USA. We were, we were going to do all the things we had wanted to do all these long years of working hard, we were BUT. BUT, THAT’S A BIG BUT. After a few months of traveling Howard got sick. He had a cold, he had a sinus infection, he was having trouble breathing, he was tired all the time, he was getting depressed, I was getting depressed. Nothing was going right. Finally after 6 months he was feeling better and we were headed to Pennsylvania and up the east coast for the summer and fall. But something just wasn’t right so we called his Doctor (we were in Oklahoma-the Doctor was in Texas) and said maybe we needed a prescription for some antibiotics just in case the sinus infection came back. No he said, I want you to go see an ENT before you go any further. So we did, we saw and ENT 2 days later and the ENT announced, you have a tumor in your throat and you have to get started on treatment immediately.

We were shocked, stunned, afraid, and all the emotions you can imagine except happy. So back to Texas we went where we have been for the last 16 months. Yes he is alive and so far cancer free but not out of the woods for another couple of years. I only share this with you to say YOU never know what tomorrow will bring. You only go around once so STOP being afraid, STOP making excuses. Take a deep breath and get started planning. Change is scary, change is hard, but so is death so put your faith in your higher power, whatever yours is, mine is God.

17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW

by John Di Lemme

www.ChampionsLiveFree.com

Let’s talk about words.  It’s important to understand that the words that you speak predict your results.  If you say that you are depressed, then you will reap those results.  If you say that you are a champion, then your results will be life-changing. You automatically take ownership of your words, and things start to occur in your life because of those words – good or bad. Now, I’m going to give you seventeen focused words that will radically change your results and terminate fear out of your life forever.

# 1 – Committed. I am committed to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to be a Why Warrior.  However, 97% of people are not committed to anything in life.  Committed – notice it’s past tense.  A commitment is final decision about what you are willing to do to achieve some type of goal or objective.  It’s not something that you just think about and put off for another day. When you make a commitment, it’s finished.  There’s no turning back.  Once you’ve made the decision to be committed to something, your commitment is represented in your action steps, associations, and schedule.  What are you doing every day to honor that commitment?  Are the people that you associate with motivating you to stick to your commitment?  Does your daily schedule reflect your commitment?  If you answered no to any of those questions, then you are simply not truly committed.

Word # 2 – Confidence. I am walking strong with confidence as a faithful Why Warrior champion.  When someone walks in confidence, you can feel it when they walk in the room and see it in their overall body posture. Like when I take the stage at an event, I’m confident in my abilities as a speaker that I will change lives through my message.  Confidence is fully believing what you already know that you are capable of doing.  When you make a decision to implement confidence in every area of your life, your results will explode, and people will take notice of the change.  Confidence also gets rid of fear instantly and provides you with the faith that you need to achieve your Why in life.

Word # 3 – Pulverize. This word is a powerful!  I pulverize the enemy of fear now with my outwardly spoken words.  Outwardly spoken words instantly detonate inward fear.  For example, when you speak affirmations like “I am a fired up champion!”  Fear runs and faith stands.  Faith filled words pulverize fear!  You’ve got to make a mental decision to absolutely pulverize the enemy of fear now by speaking empowering words over your life every day.  Remember, your words determine your results so take the needed action to predict your own future with your words and pulverize the enemy of fear!

Word # 4 – Fighter.  I’m a faith fighter for my Why.  When you get serious about achieving your Why in life, you become a fighter.  No, not a physical fighter, but you are willing to stand up to the enemy that is trying to stop you.  Fear fights every single day to hold you back from your Why so you’ve got to learn to fight back.  How? Start controlling what comes out of your mouth and into your eyes and ears.  Fear is constantly feeding you through television, radio, billboards, and other forms of media.  However, fear really attacks through our friends, family, and coworkers.  It’s amazing how one little word of discouragement about your Why will cause you to completely give up.  I believe we need to fight for our Why no matter what anything or anyone else says.  Become a fighter today and stand up for your Why!

Word # 5 – Extraordinary. I’m an extraordinary champion. The only difference between being extraordinary and ordinary is that little bit of extra. Average people speak ordinary words. Ordinary people get ordinary results. Fear makes us remain ordinary in every area of life – health, decision, words, family, finances, happiness, etc. You are extraordinary! God did not make a mistake with you. You are an extraordinary champion! Remember that and go the extra mile in your life to become truly extraordinary.

Word # 6 – Wiser. I am a stronger, wiser, powerful, decisive, miracle manifesting champion Why Warrior. I often pray for wisdom just like Solomon, the richest man that ever walked the Earth. Now to be that blessed, I’m confident that Solomon didn’t pray to win the lottery, for his ship to come in, to be at the right place at the right time, or any other foolishness. No, he prayed for wisdom! Wisdom creates an understanding that you are highly blessed and certified by your birthright to be a champion. It also helps you to understand that fear has absolutely no place in your life! Become wiser in your everyday life by learning three new things per day and journal about them at the end of the day. This daily habit will take you to the next level and drive fear right out of your life!

"Beware of the thoughts you keep, because everything in reality manifests from the mind." ~ Justin Palmer

Change comes about when you are tired of your current reality.  When you have a dream of what you want for your future but you believe it will never happen then that is what you get.  No change.  When you believe that it can happen then you will find a way to make it happen because that is your belief, your thoughts.

If I may I will share one of my experiences.  When I was growing up my mother was a negative person and nothing I did was right.  She led me to believe I could not do anything.  My dream was to become a Nurse and I kept that dream even though my mother told me I wouldn't be able to do that.  I kept that dream until my high school counselor called me in my senior year and told me to forget about college that I would be lucky to get a job at the local five and dime store (better known today as a dollar store).  Then I believed my mother was right so I gave up my dream.  That is until I was 25 and then I started to believe I could go to college.

I started at the University of Oklahoma to get an accounting degree.  I was afraid to take the core courses of English and History because that was what I had the hardest time with in high school.  I finally took my first English course and the professor gave me a C no matter what kind of paper I wrote.  I went to him and asked what I needed to do to make a better grade and his response was that  I would never get any better because C's were I made in High School.  Well there you go-I would never be able to get a degree.  Why?  Because I let other people tell me I COULD NOT do it.  I let myself believe them.

Well guess what,  10 years later at 35 I again decided I could get a degree.  I didn't let anybody tell me I couldn't.  I worked full time and went to school full time.  When it got hard and I felt like I was failing I would get help.  I graduated Suma Cum Laud with a Bachelor of Social work degree.  Why?  Because I believed I could do it and I was going to prove all those other people wrong.  Not only did I get a BSW degree I then went back to graduate school and got a Master of Arts degree.  Neither of these were easy but I needed them to do what I wanted to do, not to just say I had a degree.

I had to believe each and every day that I could do it and I had to work hard to do it.

Do you want change?  Do you believe?  Are you willing to put all the naysayers out of your mind and put belief in?  Are you ready to do your due diligence and work as hard as you need to, to make the change happen?  There are many people out here to help you.

Everything in reality manifest from the mind so as Henry Ford said:

"Whether you think you can or think you can't-you are right."

Diana Defibaugh, BSW MA

Lifestyle Coach

yourcoach@afuture4u.com

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DREAMS DO COME TRUE..
You are never given a wish without also being given the power to make it come true. The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it. If you have the desire, you have the power to attain it. You can have anything you want in life if you will sacrifice everything else for it....Your dreams can come true if you pursue them. Where there's a will, there's a way.